Four hours!!! He was NEVER gone four hours - 6 to 8 at a minimum. See below.
It's a funny story (now but not then), but the weekend after I caught him talking on the phone to his "just a friend who happens to be a girl" I asked my daughter to stay with the boys on Sunday after I knew he had to be done golfing so I could drive to the golf course and talk to him without the boys being around.
When I got there, I saw his truck and knew he was in the clubhouse. So I went in to talk. They have these private rooms there - fairly large - where guys play cards or whatever. I opened one door and no X, I opened another door, and there he was sitting at a table - with her. Other tables were full of people and I just walked back out, got into my car and drove home. I was devastated not only because it was proof of him and her, but because he thought so little of me that he would see her out in the open like that.
Being a victim FL is self-defeating. I was for a long time after that day, but I no longer am. I vowed to never be that naive again.
And thanks for asking how I am. I am very well. I had a long day out of town but am back home now. I don't think I've ever been better than I am right now FL. I no longer live with and love someone who cared so little for me. My kids are finally happy again. I'm finally happy again. I have a SO who I still keep at arms length because of the X, but it's what I want and he's a patient guy. So life is good.
