I'm wondering if you shouldn't formally dispense with "The Offer" once and for all, by telling him -- in writing -- that you reject it, thusly:
Quote:
To: Husband
Fr: Sunny
Re: "The Offer"
After considering your offer, I wanted to let you know that I reject it. I'll have to get with my attorney to come up with something for you to look at as an alternative.
I think it's a great idea!
Should I do it b/f he leaves on his 10 day trip in a few days? Do it via e-mail?
I definitely do not want to ever sit down w/him to go over what I'll settle for, or was that just a smoke screen to engage me on other things b/f he heads out of town?
It's like hearing "I don't know, I don't know what to do."
