I will wait to see what you write later, but I am guessing that her saying "I don't enjoy sex and never will" comment is haunting you and you can't get past it. Let me know if that is what you meant...
DQ,
Yes, that has a lot to do with it. I don't know how one can change from that attitude without the other partner feeling as though sex from then on, if it occurs...will be nothing more than pity or chore sex which to me is a term that many used to use on here as being "crap" sex and that won't work for me.
