Thanks Cinders. You are going on holiday the day after my birthday. August 14th is a good day. My grandmother, God rest her soul, was born that day.

I will miss you while you are gone but have a great time.

Everything happens for a reason, maybe Dad needs to find that it isn't better out there, he needs to realize how good he had it here. Maybe he will find God and that is the most important thing when he finds Him he will know he is supposed to come home.