those are good things but are you happy right now in your life? are you indifferent to your husband? are you able to "not" think about him?your signature line is very telling.
I guess I need clarification about what you are trying to say here. What is telling about my signature...this is what our S18 said the day our D was final. Legally I am divorced.
I am not sure why every time I answer one of your questions I am accused of being defensive...don't read anything into my answers just take them at face value you don't have to agree. I am one of the people you have told are "stuck". I am still not sure what that means. My life has changed tremendously since this all started but I am not ready to walk away from what is still important to me...an intact family...not just for me but for my sons and their future families.
I don't know why I responded anyway other than out of boredom because I don't have a vehicle and all my friends are working. When I try to take part in a discussion with you, I always leave feeling as if I was set up.
Everything happens for a reason, maybe Dad needs to find that it isn't better out there, he needs to realize how good he had it here. Maybe he will find God and that is the most important thing when he finds Him he will know he is supposed to come home.
