Lost - DQ's right about writing letters that you never intend to deliver. I have written many over about an 8 month period, trying to draft a letter to make her understand my feelings. I would write them and then read them over and over. I would look at them weeks later and realize how cold they would sometimes sound. Sometimes I would even cry as I wrote parts of them. It just helps to get your feelings down on paper. It's a very small price to pay for some good therapy.
When I bought the book SSM, I also bought some stationary. If you get to the point of writing to her, there is nothing more personal than a hand written note on nice paper. It really makes it seem to come from your heart.
