Completely and utterly devastated--how to cope

[Jen_Jam]

OK, you asked for it (hope you don't regret it!!!)

Link here and contains links to the previous 2 threads

just about the whole story

And Lola is right - there IS hope. No guarantee, but to be completely honest, there are some on these boards who would bite your arm off if you offered them your sitch instead of theirs.