Originally Posted By: happyincognito
I have a question for you, mainly for the ladies that post here as so many of you seem to be stuck or second guessing yourselves. So if you knew 100% that your husbands were absolutely not going to come home ever how would you change your lives>?what would you do right now to make yourself happy and to feel complete WITHOUT jumping into another relationship? what goals would you make and what changes would you make?


Good question, made me think... and then the answer came to me.

I would live the life I am living now.
In time probably I would start a course or find a direction in life to concentrate on, for when the kids grow up, but right now, I am where I want to be...with my kids, with my friends, with my family, doing the things I love doing.
Maybe the pain of not knowing would disappear and that could only make me even happier in my life.


Love Cinders xxx

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