I'm not sure if I'm writing to give you advice, but I wanted to say that it's good to hear that you are spending so much time together. Also, you may have already mentioned this, but will either of you try counseling? If he won't do it, will you go on your own? I remember you writing early on that you thought that he may have a drinking problem, so a good c may be able to help you deal with that and the effect on your m.
