Thanks for your feedback, sweet friends.

Sometimes I think I need intensive therapy. Today, for example, I am feeling very stressed about my finances and purchasing so many new things and then I start worrying about my h's finances. I'm thinking "oh, poor thing, he might not be able to continue on with his exact lifestyle. Maybe OW should move in to help with finances." WTF kind of f'ed up thinking is that?????? Do I need to be committed?

Be honest.


M: 37
H: 36
Married: Aug 13, 2004
Decision to Divorce: July 20, 2008
Reconciled: September 2008
Current: Ambivalence