I won't try to mold her into someone else, I don't even want that. I love her for who she is and wouldn't change that for anything. I married her because there was something about her that I could relate to, the sex was good but everything else was great, I loved her more than anyone else I have ever met before or since. I would like to truly know her on a very intimate level though and also for her to know me. I think that we have both just closed ourselves off from each other. We never made that step to truly get to that level of deep understanding.
Without going into detail, some of those past HD's I knew might have been good at communicating in bed, but had many other problems outside of that. I'm just saying that "pillow talk" can and does come easily for *some* people.
