nlt, yes, I know that my H knows about D's and how they are handled. If I get there, I will be taking my best interests.

It would be in any of our best interests to hire our own lawyers...and I am no different. Our H's are different men now. Not the same men who promised to love, honor, cherish us until the day they died.

I can understand how you feel about not really 'winning". All you wanted was your H back!

I will watch my back...and I have a lot of great friends from this board and my family who will not let me thrown under the bus by the evill twin!

Prayed last night and felt so good about it!

Hugs,
Vali

Aug '06: H moved out
July '08: H had a kid with the OW
May 12 '09: emancipation day

"Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it." -Ferris Bueller