You're the best JenJam! If you could post the links to your threads, I would really appreciate it! I'm still in between trying to assume the worst outcome(so I don't get my hopes up), and looking at success stories like yours and being optimistic...

You're right--it feels like the heart has been ripped out. I literally feel like throwing up or crying every minute. I like the idea of plans and spreadsheets. Again, seems like we might be quite similar there...

Thank you as always!

ITH

Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years
Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be
S 07/28/08-11/08/08
Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!