NG
I think you handled it well
He still loves you and I sense he is really torn
he cant make the decision fully
hes been in the house a long time
longer than most here
and if he doesnt want to hurt kids well that is good
can you talk to DB coach and get advice on this

maybe see what happens if you roll over and touch him one night
I dont know but at this point -what do we have to lose??

I think your plan to be supportive and friendly is good
Im sorry for your pain ..it is so hard to wait and guess and wait more
there are no answers really
I understand the Shell that your H is as mine is too
peace

married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow