My advice...Go buy a cheap laptop and password protect the login. That's what my W does!
Hey SD, nice to hear from you! This is what I intend to do, thanks!
Lovely L, always there for me
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It was Joyce Davenport all the way until last night when H arrived to P/U S5 for dinner. He had not seen or talked to S5 since he left on Saturday afternoon. Typically Sat. thru Monday are OW's time.
When he walked in the door he told S5 he wanted to trade his usual Wed. night for Tues.(today) & he would sleepover @ his place.
He has had success b/f w/this & I fell right back in;
Me-You're leaving on Thursday for 10 days & you're choosing to go without seeing S5 for the couple of days b/f you leave? When you're out of town you tell me it's important to talk to S everyday & you insist on it, here you're in town & you're not going to see him?
H- I have to pack, & what difference does a matter of 12 1/2 hours (?) make? This is why we can't do this anymore, the only thing you're good for is guilt. If you wouldn't have a problem w/me living near here, I'd be able to see him more (he lives 4 miles away).
Me-I can't make someone feel guilty, you're going to have to own that by yourself. Live where ever you choose, I've only told you what I'd prefer & how I feel about it. If you decide to do that, you'll have to live w/the consequences, just as I will.
H-OK, fine, start threatening me, why don't you respond to the offer then.
He stopped there & said we need to get together & talk...face to face. I said I've already said everything that I have to say b/f & unless there's something different he has to say, then there is no need to talk. He says he only wants to talk about "The Offer".
I tell him I'll have it looked over while he's gone.
When he came back from dinner I turned down his request to stay w/S5 & watch a program. I told him talking to me the way he was is unacceptable & he can P/U S5 tomorrow, I'll have his things packed & ready, I don't care to engage w/him on anything but S5 any longer.
After thinking about it, what needed to be said at the beginning was; "OK that would be fine." Nothing else. Since he hadn't gotten anything from me, he was probably looking for anything that would spark some sort of response. What's on the "always worked b/f list";
