Leap of Faith on the Lake Erie Shore

[Neilh23]

What did you do for fun. I know that was a long time ago, but humor me... Did you play any sports? Did you play video games? Did you go bowling/play pool? Did you ski/hike/surf/bike/etc...? There has to be something that at one time was fun. Figure out what that is.

just me? or with her? I played soccer all my life..don't get to too much now...i'm in an adult league on sundays..missed this weekend because of her needing a helping hand. Read...... The odd thing is that in the last couple of days, i've been trying to think of those things too.... and i'm like...what did I do for fun? I used to go to our land (we called it "the country") and build my treehouse, or run around with my brothers. Alas, we don't own it anymore. Plastic models..i've got a couple coming in the mail.....

On the compliment thing... i do agree with SC about it seeming like a line to get sex, but also, for me at least, 99% of the compliments that i (used to) get are generic. "you look nice/fine/good/pretty/ok..." We want to feel like you actually noticed. When we get dressed, especially when we get dressed up really nice we have a reason for each thing we chose. If i put on a nice dress and do my hair. As much as "you look pretty" is good to hear, it doesn't compare with something like " you're hair looks really pretty when you put it up like that" or something... It means you really looked at us and appreciate the work that went into the look.

i got that today. I really, finally, understood that. I got a sincere thank you when i complimented the color. Would it be wrong to try and work it into something everyday? I don't want to seem pushy...

thanks for writing back to me....