I said it from a position of strength. That's what I remember feeling. It was like, I don't NEED to. It was delivered matter of factly with my personally feeling strong behind it.
Thanks for the feedback Mike. I value your input highly.
Ken
lots of times the way you say things can be taken a certain way. That's the reason I asked. You can say things calmly and get a shocked reaction just as you would if you say it "mean"..you see what I'm saying?? That's the reason I say, "if you can do this with no emotion" then it is easier, better..calmer..
