I said it from a position of strength. That's what I remember feeling. It was like, I don't NEED to. It was delivered matter of factly with me personally feeling strong behind it. When I said it I didn't care what it would do. It was just the truth. I wasn't afraid of rocking the boat like I have been in the past few months. I have to be careful that I don't cause damage from this position.
There's a big part of me that knows I don't need her. I've been cutting the neediness hooks out. And the more I dig them out the more I find myself standing up on my own - with dignity and strength.
I want to be with my wife, but I don't need her. This is a strong position for me to be in - especially given my past history.
Thanks for the feedback Mike. I value your input highly.
Ken
Last edited by ken; 07/29/0806:51 PM.
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