thats sort of how i feel- steady coming together and then the LULL phase with nothing....i guess that better then the other way...i think starting to ML really was hard on him ..he is very sensitive with that and never uses it is any way...so he wasnt ready for some reason....
as for the "we" reference regarding vacations:
at dinner a few weeks ago i said you can plan costa rica (which i didnt want to do before bc i was scared to go) he stuck his out at me and laughed...in a good way...bc i said ill let you plan the whole thing.
i said it in the text the other night as more like there are a lot of places to adventure to...not referencing us or we....
so one of my main goals is to have him ask me on a vacation or adventure of some sort- even a weekend /midweek getaway...he hasnt done that yet...lots of local stuff and hit tubbing which is fine by me- but i really want to go somehwere with him...
i am going to shasta area to see my BF (her H is friends with my H too) at the end of this month- i mentioned it to him in passing a few dates ago and he started to check his phone for his days off then quickly realized what he was doing and didnt continue...do i invite him?
my DB coach said casual friends a few weeks ago before the hike and anny- and now i get confused if its time to move beyond that ?
Pisces M 31 H 32 M 7 yrs S 5/10 Beginning Contact! Vibes Hot Tub Cheese
