He just called, I was hysterical this morning. He called to tell me about my D8 reading the texts. It spun into everythng imaginable, and I said everything that you would say was wrong to say. He says papers will be coming soon, get a lawyer, it will save both of us money and aggravation if I just sign them and not fight. He also told me to move on. Said it would be weird to go out w/him for his birthday tomorrow. Like I am some kind of cancerous growth now. That is what hurts the most. Kept saying I could move out and he would move in and take care of things. I said the only way I would leave is to sell. I said I didn't like this GF doing things to D8. He said that was ridiculous, but agreed that if I had someone who was doing stuff with S12 it would bother him. But isn't going to tell her to stop. I said I wanted our stuff to remain between us and not shared with her. He didn't really respond. I also said it was killing me knowing he was sleeping with her. He still has yet to confirm it, I was waiting to trick him. Anyway, nothing great.
Me 43 H 44 S-13 D-9 Separated 90 days 6/28/05 H Says he is done-10/2/06-day after 18th anniv Moved out 10/2/07-to father's house-day after 19th wedding anniv-GF now H Filed for D 7/08