((((Chris))))) those words are so painful- and i will say it and i mean this: believe nothing of what he says.
when he is talking R all you need to do is listen, validate and have VERY LITTLE feedback...he will be able to spew whatever it is and you can take it..no reaction..that means not even justifying or saying sweet things to him to make him "see" how good things are....he knows how good they are and he know how confused he is..he is speaking from pure confusion and his defense to protect himself and you is to say these things...that is what you need to believe the actions...
im not sure about ML - its a tough one to figure out...you know the answer to that one...
you are making good progress...please look at all the baby steps and list them here...look back to when this wasnt happening and ask yourself why these good changes are occurring...give yourself some strength!
ill read that article now
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