MIM.... see that's teh part that is so frustrating. He is just sitting "waiting" for a lightning bolt of feelings of love to hit him. HE isn't getting the "work to bring it back" concept. And if he just sits waiting it's NOT going to happen and that scares me to death. I just don't know why he won't just try. I mean our interactions are not horrible. We can enjoy each others company. Why can he not just date and see for awhile?
Iamlost..... thanks for pointing out those thread differences. HE definitely has softened up, but when he says NOTHING has changed it just makes me feel hopeless. He hasn't brought up filing for a couple weeks which is huge, but after last night and him saying nothing is changing, I still feel it all hanging over my head. I just don't get how he can let go of something that is so right on so many levels. And I don't want him to live in a loveless marriage. Um, I don't either. But yes, for awhile........ can we not BOTH sacrifice and get this back on track?
