She doesn't seem to be in a compromising mood because you both are entrenched in your positions - you in your relgious activies, and her not. There doesn't seem to be much in common there does there? However...maybe there is. You like the friends/community aspect right? I'm sure she likes hanging out with her friends. You like playing music right? I'm sure she likes lisetning to music, just probably not religious stuff. Play on the similarities, not the differences.
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2