I know that our situations are/were very similar, so I always really value your input. I know I am a strong person, I do, but it's mostly the fact that I am not going to get to see H very much that is disturbing me, as I will not be able to demonstrate being this happy, light person. I just think this separation is a big mistake, and is going to make things even worse than they are now. Of course this is the last thing I can say to him...
I know that your situation took quite some time to get resolved, but were there times along the way where your H actually showed that he missed you, actually reached out to you and seemed like the person you'd fallen in love with originally?
Also--did you talk to a DB coach or did you just use the book?
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Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be S 07/28/08-11/08/08 Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!
