Really upside down #2

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Alright. Plan for today is to let my W call me next. I've done enough pursuing and she is acting distant, so time for me to back off.

Had a conversation with my dad over the weekend. W is attending a bridal shower for my cousin's W this weekend at my parents. Everyone is unsure about her reasons. I asked and she said she felt it was the right thing to do.

I've been in this exact sitch before with my XW. She attended a holiday gathering with me, and it was like the "goodbye" to my family. My family seems to think this is the same sitch. No way I could ever know unless I ask and that is not a good idea.