What time zone are you in? I'm concerned about you; you don't seem to be ever SLEEPING. This message board can get addictive, I know. Have you read the books yet??? You haven't asked us one question about any of the things taught in the book.
I'm sorry to hear about the recent altercation. I'm glad you called the cops -- now there is a record. DOCUMENT EVERYTHING. I kept a disposable camera in my car; if you do this, take pictures of OM's car parked in YOUR driveway.
OK, this is where the tires hit the road, Buster. You set a personal, hard boundary of "no OM in our house." They crossed it. What are you going to do about it???
I know what I would do, but you need to start thinking more for yourself and pulling yourself up here. We can ENCOURAGE you, and we can answer specific questions about what you've read, but the dynamic that you have set up -- multiple, very short posts of "this happened; what do I do now???" is not the best way to get help from this forum.
Puppy i work midnight to 8am. i sleep during the day mostly. I already have video of his car in our driveway from the 1st altercation. the cops couldn't make him leave. its her house too, she invited him.
2. Your relationship with your wife is over when YOU say it is over ----MarkF
for the first time in a long time I can't fall asleep....so upset. I pretty much know OM is there almost every night. Too many bad memories for me to move in. Although I have to admit I have been way too nice to her all along . this mornings shenanigans kicked something on inside of me. Short and to the point from now on, me and my son are the concern. No more nicey nice
2. Your relationship with your wife is over when YOU say it is over ----MarkF
