Well Monday came and went and I have not heard another word.
I am going to sit and do nothing.
I have thought a lot of the conversation H must have had with his best friend (my source is not this same friend by the way, he is one of my bosses).
From what I know and I am an expert on my sitch, I do believe that my H was talking to his best friend for advice on what to do. I think he wanted to hear again his best friend telling him to go home. His best friend has continuously and repeatedly been an advocate for our reconcilation. He isn't afraid to tell him every time he sees him. I know this is true because the wife of my H best friend IS my best friend...She would never lie to me. She and I have a huge relationship and we are always candid with each other.
Another thing my H best friend tells him repeatedly is: "I warned you guy...don't fall in love with your GF".
NOW in some strange sense...Out on a limb (maybe), I think my H tells him he loves us both and doesn't want to D me. I think my H talks about all of the good things around here and tells him he likes what he sees here. According to best friends wife, H tells his friend that he can see himself coming home now and I think that has been a part of the conversation now for several months.
I AM NOT GOING TO GET MY HOPES UP.....I told my boss yesterday that I think he will pick her. My boss said "no way".
TIME WILL TELL -
Sanderika
ME48/H48MLC T 33y M 28y S16 OW 8/7/05 Bomb 8/16/05 Sep 9/05 H f'd D 10/3/08 D pp'd 1/20/09,7/24/09,12/4/09 D dismissed 2/5/10 H served me D papers again 9/4/10 D dismissed 9/26/11