Happy: I could have written the same thing as you. In fact - I just wrote similar on my own thread. I took care of everything and he golfed and fooled around. Golf was his life. It was his EVERYTHING! He would even tease that he would not be there for the birth of the kids because he'd be out on the course. Of course he was teasing - but he always said things like that.
Ex was good at golf. He won tournaments. During the month we split, I talked to one of his buds, in his league. He said he didn't know what happened. Ex couldn't golf worth a damn. Ended up throwing the clubs and annuncing he had marital problems. And friend said maggot had driven him to the club that day and he had seen her. Ex was quick to assure him "she's just a friend". Friend said "I hadn't even asked".
Chuck apparently quit golf the next year. Said he couldn't afford it. Of course - he had no licence either. Then he started doing couples tournaments with maggot who had never golfed before. I know what that is like. I HATED golfing with him because I wasn't good enough. Last I heard he'd given it up again because ya know - maggot won't let him do anything without her. LOL!
