Divorce and Children

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It's called propaganda, when the truth is what's called for.


The truth is that children have a terrible time of it, even when the marriage was terrible to begin with.


THIS IS A PLACE TO SAVE MARRIAGES. Propaganda looks a lot different. Bullying looks a lot different.


Everyone knows not every marriage can or should be saved. But if they can be saved...it's worth every effort from YOU (you personally and you collectively), ME and the people involved to do so.

I will take a stand when I feel it's made light of.


I will take a stand when advice is harmful to marriage.




You also come off with credibility. When you post a lot or have been on the boards a lot....it comes off that way. You have a responsibility to speak for marriage.


When I post personal opinion I qualify it.




If you're going to demonize children of divorce, let's at least be fair and present the WHOLE story for what you're suggesting as an alternative.



How did I demonize the children. I didn't.

What part of the story are you looking for...how to raise children in a bad marriage. I don't suggest that. Make the best marriage you can.

What if you can't .... I already said that...if you can't you can't......but it's still not ok.





Some children do thrive. I have one that's thriving and one that gets very shy of survival. The thing is.....you have very little control when your home is split up.