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You have so many things working against you. I don't see how you keep winning, but I'm cheering for you.


You're telling me!~
I agree with you ,,, I am not one of those Women who will just use the BFF card.
I have a friend who I have known now 12 years... when I was preganant with my now 9 year old,,,,

she told me she was cheating and was going to stay cause he bought her whatever she wanted.... balh , blah , blah... ( THEY ALSO HAD 2 DAUGHTERS)

I told her... \:\(
YOU CANT DO THAT... IT ISNT RIGHT.
EVEN IF IT IS GOING TO HURT HIM, IT IS BETTER THAT YOU LEAVE HIM.
HE DOESNT DESERVE THIS, AND YOU KNOW IT. IMO~ BUT THATS ME YOU HAVE TO DECIDE FOR YOURSELF.
The next day she called me... she told him she wanted a Divorce.
She is still single.... and loves it?!


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Also when I went to Mexico this winter for 2 weeks with the hubby and our kids... my SIL~,
kept mentioning how the other whore ooops I mean Woman,
Was Married and her hubby , blah , blah , blah....
I didnt recall asking about her "lowness"?
Was it supposed to make me feel better that she is Married now?
WTF?
I wanted to say she she was a whore and didnt have any consideration before and now suddenly I am supposed to love her cause she signed a piece of paper and he bought her a ring?
PLEASE~

Oh yeah and my Mother in Law. ( she is another prize)
informed me that she gives me my place as her sons Wife ( literal translation from spanish) and when the OW called that she wanted t come to the Christmas party she told her "No ".

cause she didnt want to upset me...

HMMMMMMMMMM?
That never stopped her from inviting the ex girlfriend every other time I have gone down there?


She isnt dumb.. my H was finally putting me first and she knew if she ( MIL) invited the OW , he would be livid with her for hurting me...

I wanted to say to her you know I am not 25 years old anymore and you cant have your way with me anymore. I am almost 37 and I see right thru your bullsh*t.

Ah , Karma..... but that is a whole other twist to this Novella...

Anyway just thought I'd share.

Thanks for cheering for me ... I can use it~

Thanks Bear...
~Ali