But just to vent may I say the terms "convert" and "lifestyle" are repulsive to me. I am not a Presbeterian thinking about becoming a Jew and as to lifestyle??? You mean like having a career, paying taxes and having children? Yeah, that's my "lifestyle" and I'd venture to say it doesn't differ from Sandi's very darn much. And my spouse is cheating on me, breaking her commitments and it hurts like hell. Some lifestyle.
aaaaaaa.......I'm not sure exactly what this all means. I don't know if I was slapped in the face or what......I guess I hit a hot button or something.....I don't know. Maybe that isn't what is being said. I was just trying to offer my shoulder to a friend and I as I said, I don't know anything about the life of a lesbian, so if the term "lifestyle" or "convert" is replusive......I did not mean to turn anyone's stomach. To me it is a preferred way of living, by choice, a "lifestyle" and I think some are pulled, persuaded or converted into it. Anyway, rather than cause any problems, I guess the best thing for me to do is to back out of something I am not an authority on.
LS, you know I wish you the best in the world. I am concerned due to her past sexual history in your M that it would take a lot of therapy.....or something to help her. I do think that she is being malnipulated......and that is one reason the OW will not leave her alone with the children. JMHO. I would fight her tooth and nail for those kids.
But, I don't want to cause any more confusion here, so I will bow out of a subject I know very little about nor apparently am up on what words are appropriate to use. I just did not want to be offensive to anyone. You can reach me on my thread, if you wish.
Take care, Sandi
sandi- you need to stay right here on this thread. Chris needs you here. You are a voice of DB experience and that's what he needs at the moment.
I'm sure Stubby would agree that we all need to be helping Chris.
