I know my situation probably sounds better than some others, i.e. no OW, agreement to go to marriage counseling etc. I guess what stings the most here is that H has always been the most affectionate man I had ever met. He was always saying he loved me, singing little songs to me about how he loved me, holding my hand, telling me how wonderful I was etc. This is all gone now. I just keep thinking that he was so incredibly unhappy with everything, and now he will be happier, and he will not see how I can fit into his new and improved life. Does anyone have any ideas how to make sure that someone can see you as a source of happiness even when you weren't in the past?
Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be S 07/28/08-11/08/08 Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!
