Confused,
My H & I have made two weekends, the first 11 years ago, and our second one was this past February. The phrases that you note are very good ones. Also, remember that Love and Trust are not feelings, they are Decisions. Same is true with Hate. (took me a while to figure that one out!) Try really hard to dialog every day until your first post session, and don't be afraid to ask for help from your presenting team or other Retro alum on this site. Peace. My sitch = http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...rue#Post1516497


Me:44, WAW hx bi-polar H:48, hx of abuse
S:22, S:19, D:16
Filed Oct 08, dismissed
Filed again Jan 10, dismissed
Now Piecing
alter persona: SuperBoots