Lodo, so what if she did pull a gF W on you? What would you do then? Karen
A) She won't; B) She won't agree to no contact w/ OM; C) She won't take the time to work on things; D) Our R is over. She said so herself - she said she thought our previous separation defined our M. That she was naive when she met me. That she can't be the person for me. That she's happy doing what she's doing. That she can't go back to being with someone.
So. I went through this once before. And we got back together. and it worked for awhile. But now we're back at where we were before. And I can't continue doing this for the rest of my life! I need to be with someone who is as committed as I am, even when times are bad. At least to hold out the possibility for trying rather than shutting down and hopping into bed with the first person that looks.
