Well, I decided I still need to work on patience, but lately also am working on strength, mentally and physically (TKD). So thought I'd rename my thread just a bit!
Quiet life without my H. I dreamed about kissing like 3 different guys last night, not H, not anyone I know which is good b/c most of the guys I know are married, so whew! It's been about 9 months for me, so I hope the divorce is not going to take forever!!! I know that's horrible of me, but there it is! Hope everyone is doing good today!!! Love you guys! Karen
I think those feelings are understandable. Your mind and spirit are beginning to make the transition from your monogamous life with your husband, and your romantic life after him.
So long as it's not three guys AT ONCE (you kink-dog), I think this is a healthy way for your mind to begin dealing with things.
Last night, I myself dreamed about my first love in high school. Weird stuff.
((Karen)) you have already come so far, give yourself some credit.
As for the dreams, color me jealous...LOL
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
Maybe I don't feel like a teenager because I have a teenager in the house. Plus he isn't sharing all the new hip codes with me like my D9. She told me that something tonight was really tight! WT?? Go get them rascally 22 year olds!
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
She told me that something tonight was really tight! WT?? Go get them rascally 22 year olds!
kat
I assume tight means good or something? Never heard of that! Yes, I'm old now! Yeah, I don't like young guys (not much older than my S14 you know!!!) but they love me, I think they have a mother complex or some weird thing. Or maybe it's just my "boob shirts" I've been wearing the past couple months? (I got that from "Must Love Dogs" you know) Karen
It means it is really cool. My S15 just looked at me and said you didn't know that?? I need to watch Must Love Dogs again. In someways I feel as if I have been without a husband for over a year and other parts he is still here. Don't even know where I am going to meet anyone to date. Not looking forward to that part, but if they look like John Cusak or Dermot Mulroney they can't be all that bad. Can they?
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
Karen