Welcome back Sara! Well I do agree with you Rob & Lodo, but I also don't think much of anyone who gets involved with a married man like OW did. Yeah, your H might have found another woman with questionable morals to get involved with besides her, but still don't think much of the OW just b/c there might have been another trampy woman who wouldn't have said no to your H. I mean if that's the best defense for OW, I think I'd have to convict her.....:) Of course, I'd probably never be picked for that jury! Karen