Getting Off the Rollercoaster!

[addie]

Hi Mike, Andabelle, Jen - thanks for your thoughts.

I've lost all patience with H's ongoing lies. It was different when we first separated and he was in PA but wasn't promising me anything - any expectations were totally on my part. However since OR ended and he started giving me hope that we would work on our M but then turns around continues to pursue OW, joins dating sites/personal ads, is hanging out with 20 something year olds, it's become a whole different ballgame. The scary part is that I thought I knew him so well but I can't even tell when he's lying anymore. He's become so good at it.

Andabelle-interesting you should mention it. When I first snooped, discovered PA and confronted H, he thought I had hired a PI. When I confronted him a couple of days ago, he asked me if I had been "talking to anyone" (OW???). I didn't give him any specifics but he obviously suspects because he just changed the password on his email account. Let him wonder what exactly I may know.