hi Julia- if you have tried to help him in every way imaginable- i would say talking about it or trying to offer help at this point is more of the same...

im pretty sure he knows your feelings about this right? your concerns? you have told him all this or not?

if you have- he has a lot to work out on his own and this is part of whats going on...it is very overwhelming and he is participating in self destructive behavior...

has he brought this up to you again or recently?

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