wdid talks about how she started in her affair. Like stuff I'm doing with B and other friends. She FELT that something was missing from her H. Us "Left Behinds" have our spouses TAKE their feelings away from us on purpose. I think there is a difference.
So you realize you're playing with fire like our WAS did and you are trying to rationalize it's ok because your W did it first? I just don't think any married person should be acting inappropriately with someone that's not their spouse. Yeah, I do think that's how it usually gets started: "innocent" friendship on the part of one of the people maybe or maybe not, texting, etc. Do it a little bit longer and you'll be saying just like my H "he didn't mean for it to happen".
To be honest, I had been doing that a little bit with one of my male theatre friends and I cooled off that and backed away b/c I didn't want to go there and I was also thinking I didn't want my friend to think I wanted to go there and give him the wrong ideas, not fair to my friend... Karen
