Moved out Sunday...very upset.

[JennyB]

It seems that all we have are mutual friends...

All of the friends say that he doesn't talk about anything, and just hangs out with the guys and drinks. No one asks, and H doesn't tell.

As far as his family, I was close with them, especially his mom. She was having a very hard time with all of this. Contact stopped just after Christmas, but there is no bad blood or anger...i know - sounds weird. She continues to be in severe denial about all of this.

All I can gather is that he is living like a bachelor right now (just like when we were married), and minimizing any responsibility...just like when he was 21. Must be nice.