If you were working, doing the little league, keeping the house, paying the bills, what the hell was he doing? My W. did all that stuff too, but I did the sports events and the outside stuff. LIFE GETS IN THE WAY when you work, have kids and try to keep everyone happy. Sometimes the "getting swept off their feet", "filling love tanks", "knocking my socks off" gets relegated to earning a living, TCB, and the kids. welcome to life. Still...not enough to destry a family.