Hey yall.

I have successfully phased out of my job and set up the person to replace me to succeed. Meanwhile, I am laying low and hiding out on the river awaiting my imminent departure to Panama. I am purposefully keeping the computer away as I no longer need it for work and need to stop the obsessive checking of the ex’s myspace. Having said that…. I have news.

The ex has a boyfriend. Or rather the ex has gone public with the boyfriend. See the wound… bring on the salt. I have known this guy for 5 or 6 years and no very little about him as I have always had a vague dislike for him due to the fact that he is almost always consistently arrogant and rude.

More salt please…

As best I can figure, the source of this arrogance is to mask a glaring insecurity that is common to most singer/songwriter types. Which this guy is. Which, also, is what I was when the ex and I first started dating.

Are you catching my drift? One might suggest that the only reason I garnered the attentions of this rare beauty is because I stood on that stage. The implications and inferences can be drawn from there. Really? Is that all I had to offer? Was the marriage doomed the day I split up the band and started law school?

I thought I had this all figured out. This news has shaken me. I feel physically ill.


Me: 35
WAW: 28
Bomb: 1/13/08
S: 1/14/08
D filed: 2/24/08
D final on 7/07/08

Do your damndest in an ostentatious manner all the time. -George S. Patton



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