An update from a friend. Apparently the OW has given my H an ultimatum. It was handed out last Friday (7/25/08). I HAVE HEARD THEY FOUGHT ALL LAST WEEK. Ow told H if he doesn't end the M and file for a D immediately she is done with him as of today (7/28/08). The friend is a very reliable source. H went to his best friend for advice of what to do on Friday nite or Saturday morn. H best friend told him to go home and that if it were him he would be getting home and telling the OW to take a hike and get out of here. My H best friend and his wife were my best friends too and now we are very good friends. These people really want to see us back together and have told my H so many, many times.
I saw H on Sat. I practiced detachment but was polite, kind and friendly. H was here with S dirt biking and I let them have their time. He appeared to me to have something on his mind.
Very interesting....I know my H and he doesn't take ultimatums from anyone....can't wait to see if she has more clout than everyone else. What will happen??? I may get my answer without having to make any more decisions.
Sanderika
ME48/H48MLC T 33y M 28y S16 OW 8/7/05 Bomb 8/16/05 Sep 9/05 H f'd D 10/3/08 D pp'd 1/20/09,7/24/09,12/4/09 D dismissed 2/5/10 H served me D papers again 9/4/10 D dismissed 9/26/11
