Advice from my DB coach #3

[Neilh23]

hmm....tell him to use your car then.

best i can offer you there. besides the fact that it's "his anger" not yours......don't worry about it.

here's another idea to help with the calling/negative thoughts about your sitch...and i think either Wifey or SadMillitaryWife is using it too...

put a rubber band around your wrist...every time you think a negative thought about your sitch or think of calling your H, snap it. Every time. It's a bit of behavioral therapy...