I.m glad you do Lissie, cos normal has never applied to me either. I have always marched to my own drummer and often felt a litle out of step with the world. I also have a warped SOH! I think that helped save me when the chips were right down. I love to hear your tales of your kiddiwinks--they say so much about you. I also loved the things you said on the womens thread. You are so wasted being a single but someone one day we be so blessed to have you in their life.