That is ironic with his drinking but still needing to "save you". No one ever said any of this makes sense.
Saving me by putting me through the worst pain of my life, so I won't have to go through it in ten years. (Yes, he actually said that, "Better now than 10 years down the road!" --i.e. the age when his parents got D. Uh, how bout better NOT AT ALL?)
Originally Posted By: JWS
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That's why this site is so great, and SO ADDICTIVE! Most people in my life think I should just say, "good riddance." It's beyond them not wanting me to be in pain, cause I don't really show my pain to a lot of people.
I think it's partially cause our culture just thinks of people and love as so disposable, especially if it's "too much work".
When all of us are so damaged and flawed (ironically often by our own parents difficult marriage or divorce), what meaningful relationship ISN'T work?
It is in the shelter of each other that people live.--Irish proverb
