My exact reply was going to be "fake it until you make it." It is fake for awhile, but soon you'll start seeing how much better you feel.
You also have to be PATIENT. You're right, with you h working on his masters, he'll have little time to concentrate on the marriage. That's going to sting a bit, but the best thing you can do is support him through the masters, help out when you can, don't pressure him.
And, I agree, it's pressure when you ask him to work on the marriage. He's agreed to weekly counseling, which is GREAT! A lot of us here would lOVE to get that from our spouses.
Me 36 Husband 35 D5 S2 separated: 10/29/07-present Served divorce papers 1/22/09 "When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."
