On the bumpy road towards found...

[JWS]

That is ironic with his drinking but still needing to "save you". No one ever said any of this makes sense.

no worries about things sounding bleak, if I wanted to completely undetached (double negative) I could right volumes about how great my W is and I know you could too, it is unfortunate that because of the situation we have all gotten to know each other through the worsted side of our spouses, but I am sure that no one here will ever question why you L him, That you do and you want to save your M, is more then enough, keep your chin up, you are doing great!!