OK, we get a free pass for today since we all screwed up. We are going to need a judge, though. Someone who isn't participating, maybe? Right now, this is a good challenge. With this wedding photo album coming in, I just want to know why she still wants it. Not because I doubt she wants it, but because I'm so confused as to WHAT she is thinking. So my challenge....Neil....no text tonight. NSD, no text for you, either. Screw that 3.5 hours. You CAN do it. Find something else to think about. Be in the mindset that you won't talk to her until she calls you. And I'll just hold my comments and just be nice and offer that my W keep the photo album.
BTW, any WAW's following this thread wanna bump over to mine and give me any ideas on why my W might want this photo album from a WAW perspective? I don't think I should be asking her directly "why do you want to see it?"
Me: 30 W: 27 Married: 9/2007 ILUBNILWU: 1/2008 W moved out 5/24/2008 W suicide 8/25/2009
sounds like a plan. LOL....however, when it comes to the kids, all bets are off. I will talk to her before they go to bed. Sort of our "ritual"....little bit of chit chat.
but yeah, i hear ya.
Smartcookie/Bridgestone/Sandi2 would all be good judges.
and UD...stop trying to understand her. just accept her. ya know?
ME:32 WAW:31 D #1: 3.5 D #2: 2 Together: 13 M:6 Bomb Dropped: 2/15/08 Sep legally: 6/18/08
"Tommorrow there'll be sunshine, and all this darkness past..." -Bruce Springsteen Land of Hope and Dreams
OK, guys, I'm in. I am off tomorrow and will be at least keeping busy around the house, if not really trying to GAL. Going to try to stay off the computer, but will be around tonight at one time or another.
Still planning on making it through tonight without contact. Don't forget though, we still live together, so I have plenty of other backslides to be concerned about....some I am not even sure are backslides, considering our last few months together.
oh and i'm going to cheat....i bought and started to read the 5LL....
LOL...I bought it and still have not read it. Why? I am either with my wife, or sitting around waiting for her....LOL.I am so productive and proactive these days.
Well, that's it for tonight if I can drum up the concentration. If she is out when I get home, I am going to sit down and force myself to read 5LL.
here's the thing i've figured out.....don't try and read it all at once....do other things. I htink if we obcess about our sitchs, we make them worse than they really are. Of course, coming on here doesn't help that..>LOL>...or maybe it does...however, either way...GAL too...
ME:32 WAW:31 D #1: 3.5 D #2: 2 Together: 13 M:6 Bomb Dropped: 2/15/08 Sep legally: 6/18/08
"Tommorrow there'll be sunshine, and all this darkness past..." -Bruce Springsteen Land of Hope and Dreams
