How long does it take to do these things, these activities, and actually start to feel good about them? At the moment it is completely fake.
Fake it till you make it The boot camp is an excellent idea, you forced yourself to do it when really you probably wanted to just go to sleep and wake up to H standing there saying all would be OK. This is BIG, well done. How long does it take? Not that long really, in my case. I found myself suddenly enjoying myself ... it crept up on me in a matter of weeks. The important thing is to keep on doing these things, even when you don't feel like it. Worked for me.
Bomb (ILYBINILWY, don't want to be married)Sept05 Seperated Sept/Oct 05 Oct 06 - H recomitted July 11 - I am now a WAW.
The boot camp is an excellent idea, you forced yourself to do it when really you probably wanted to just go to sleep and wake up to H standing there saying all would be OK. This is BIG, well done. How long does it take? Not that long really, in my case. I found myself suddenly enjoying myself ... it crept up on me in a matter of weeks. The important thing is to keep on doing these things, even when you don't feel like it. Worked for me.